Me and Aspergers Syndrome (this articles copyrite info is at the bottom)

"Asperger's Syndrome Characteristics"
Social Characteristics
• Difficulty in accepting criticism or correction
• Difficulty in offering correction or criticism without appearing harsh, pedantic or insensitive
• Difficulty in perceiving and applying unwritten social rules or protocols
• "Immature" manners
• Naïve trust in others
• Shyness
• Low or no conversational participation in group meetings or conferences
• Constant anxiety about performance and acceptance, despite recognition and commendation
• Scrupulous honesty, often expressed in an apparently disarming or inappropriate manner or setting
• Bluntness in emotional expression
• "Flat affect"
• Discomfort manipulating or "playing games" with others
• Unmodulated reaction in being manipulated, patronized, or "handled" by others
• Low to medium level of paranoia
• Low to no apparent sense of humor; bizarre sense of humor (often stemming from a "private" internal thread of humor being inserted in public conversation without preparation or warming others up to the reason for the "punchline")
• Difficulty with reciprocal displays of pleasantries and greetings
• Problems expressing empathy or comfort to/with others: sadness, condolence, congratulations, etc.
• Pouting,, ruminating, fixating on bad experiences with people or events for an inordinate length of time
• Difficulty with adopting a social mask to obscure real feelings, moods, reactions
• Using social masks inappropriately (you are "xv" while everyone else is ????)
• Abrupt and strong expression of likes and dislikes
• Rigid adherence to rules and social conventions where flexibility is desirable
• Apparent absence of relaxation, recreational, or "time out" activities
• "Serious" all the time
• Known for single-mindedness
• Flash temper
• Tantrums
• Excessive talk
• Difficulty in forming friendships and intimate relationships; difficulty in distinguishing between acquaintance and friendship
• Social isolation and intense concern for privacy
• Limited clothing preference; discomfort with formal attire or uniforms
• Preference for bland or bare environments in living arrangements
• Difficulty judging others’ personal space
• Limited by intensely pursued interests
• Often perceived as "being in their own world"

Physical Manifestations
• Strong sensory sensitivities: touch and tactile sensations, sounds, lighting and colors, odors, taste
• Clumsiness
• Balance difficulties
• Difficulty in judging distances, height, depth
• Difficulty in recognizing others’ faces (prosopagnosia)
• Stims (self-stimulatory behavior serving to reduce anxiety, stress, or to express pleasure)
• Self-injurious or disfiguring behaviors
• Nail-biting
• Unusual gait, stance, posture
• Gross or fine motor coordination problems
• Low apparent sexual interest
• Depression
• Anxiety
• Sleep difficulties
• Verbosity
• Difficulty expressing anger (excessive or "bottled up")
• Flat or monotone vocal expression; limited range of inflection
• Difficulty with initiating or maintaining eye contact
• Elevated voice volume during periods of stress and frustration
• Strong food preferences and aversions
• Unusual and rigidly adhered to eating behaviors
• Bad or unusual personal hygiene
Cognitive Characteristics
• Susceptibility to distraction
• Difficulty in expressing emotions
• Resistance to or failure to respond to talk therapy
• Mental shutdown response to conflicting demands and multi-tasking
• Generalized confusion during periods of stress
• Low understanding of the reciprocal rules of conversation: interrupting, dominating, minimum participation, difficult in shifting topics, problem with initiating or terminating conversation, subject perseveration
• Insensitivity to the non-verbal cues of others (stance, posture, facial expressions)
• Perseveration best characterized by the term "bulldog tenacity"
• Literal interpretation of instructions (failure to read between the lines)
• Interpreting words and phrases literally (problem with colloquialisms, cliches, neologism, turns of phrase, common humorous expressions)
• Preference for visually oriented instruction and training
• Dependence on step-by-step learning procedures (disorientation occurs when a step is assumed, deleted, or otherwise overlooked in instruction)
• Difficulty in generalizing
• Preference for repetitive, often simple routines
• Difficulty in understanding rules for games of social entertainment
• Missing or misconstruing others’ agendas, priorities, preferences
• Impulsiveness
• Compelling need to finish one task completely before starting another
• Rigid adherence to rules and routines
• Difficulty in interpreting meaning to others’ activities; difficulty in drawing relationships between an activity or event and ideas
• Exquisite attention to detail, principally visual, or details which can be visualized ("Thinking in Pictures") or cognitive details (often those learned by rote)
• Concrete thinking
• Distractibility due to focus on external or internal sensations, thoughts, and/or sensory input (appearing to be in a world of one’s own or day-dreaming)
• Difficulty in assessing relative importance of details (an aspect o the trees/forest problem)
• Poor judgment of when a task is finished (often attributable to perfectionism or an apparent unwillingness to follow differential standards for quality)
• Difficulty in imagining others’ thoughts in a similar or identical event or circumstance that are different from one’s own ("Theory of Mind" issues)
• Difficulty with organizing and sequencing (planning and execution; successful performance of tasks in a logical, functional order)
• Difficulty in assessing cause and effect relationships (behaviors and consequences)
• An apparent lack of "common sense"
• Relaxation techniques and developing recreational "release" interest may require formal instruction
• Rage, tantrum, shutdown, self-isolating reactions appearing "out of nowhere"
• Substantial hidden self-anger, anger towards others, and resentment
• Difficulty in estimating time to complete tasks
• Difficulty in learning self-monitoring techniques
• Disinclination to produce expected results in an orthodox manner
• Psychometric testing shows great deviance between verbal and performance results
• Extreme reaction to changes in routine, surroundings, people
• Stilted, pedantic conversational style ("The Professor")
Work Characteristics
Many of the manifestations found in the categories above can immediately translate into work behaviors or preferences. Here are some additional ones:
• Difficulty with "teamwork"
• Deliberate withholding of peak performance due to belief that one’s best efforts may remain unrecognized, unrewarded, or appropriated by others
• Intense pride in expertise or performance, often perceived by others as "flouting behavior"
• Sarcasm, negativism, criticism
• Difficulty in accepting compliments, often responding with quizzical or self-deprecatory language
• Tendency to "lose it" during sensory overload, multitask demands, or when contradictory and confusing priorities have been set
• Difficult in starting project
• Discomfort with competition, out of scale reactions to losing
• Low motivation to perform tasks of no immediate personal interest
• Oversight or forgetting of tasks without formal reminders such as lists or schedules
• Great concern about order and appearance of personal work area
• Slow performance
• Perfectionism
• Difficult with unstructured time
• Reluctance to ask for help or seek comfort
• Excessive questions
• Low sensitivity to risks in the environment to self and/or others
• Difficulty with writing and reports
• Reliance on internal speech process to "talk" oneself through a task or procedure
• Stress, frustration and anger reaction to interruptions
• Difficulty in negotiating either in conflict situations or as a self-advocate
• Very low level of assertiveness
• Reluctance to accept positions of authority or supervision
• Strong desire to coach or mentor newcomers
• Difficulty in handling relationships with authority figures
• Often viewed as vulnerable or less able to resist harassment and badgering by others
• Punctual and conscientious
• Avoids socializing, "hanging out," or small talk on and off the job
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